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With Clear Intent: Effective Communication
By Kristine Evenson | Date Submitted: 03/13/02Keywords: effective communication, communication skills
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Summary: Do you want to communicate more effectively? Learn how to communicate powerfully!
Most people realize that communication is the key to success in relationships. However, few people know how to communicate effectively.
In conversations, think about how many time you have been concentrating on your response rather then what the person is saying to you? It’s a common mistake that we all make in our communication with others.
You can overcome this problem simply by listening first, restating what you think you heard and then, when the other party agrees, you can express your opinion.
A little known fact is that when you listen, the other party not only is more apt to listen to you, but they often will become calmer, especially in intense situations.
As you listen, try to hear what the person is saying not only verbally, but with their tone, body language or voice pitch. You will soon discover, as expert communicators do, that listening is an active process, not a passive one. Listening is an art.
One you have heard what you think that the other person said, summarize what you think that they said. Try not to use exact words. Listen for their response. If they say “Exactly†or “You’ve got it†or “That’s right,†then you have heard what they have said. However, if they disagree with your summary, let them tell you where you are misunderstanding them.
By restating what the other person has said to you, they not only feel validated, but you also run a much smaller risk of misunderstanding what they are trying to communicate to you.
Another method you can use to avoid miscommunication between you and your client is to make sure that they are “invited†into a conversation that you would like to have with them. For example, “Hi Bob. This is Melissa. I need some help with the Vancouver direct mailing project. Do you have a minute?â€
By inviting your client to join the conversation, they are more willing to listen and fully participate. The added benefit is that the listener knows what to expect. (This is especially usefully if the conversation could be emotionally charged. For example, “Hi Bob. This is Melissa. I’m calling about the invoice that was due on March 15th. Do you have a second to chat about it?â€)
When initiating a conversation, be especially careful about your tone, body language and voice pitch during the first few seconds of your conversations. The earlier you can diffuse hostility and/or defensiveness, the more likely you will be to accomplish what you had in mind.
The following is a list of verbiage to help you explain your intent:
* Tell you about my experiences/feelings (involve no implied requests or complaints toward them).
* So that you will understand the request, offer, complaint, etc.,
* Hear how you are doing with [topic].
* Explore some possibilities concerning…. (requiring your empathy but not your advice or permission).
* Plan a course of action for you (with your help or with you as listener/witness only).
* Coordinate/plan our actions together concerning...
* Express my affection for you or appreciation of you concerning...
* Complain/make a request about something you have done or said (for better resolution of conflicts, translate complaints into requests).
* Confirm my understanding of the experience or position you just shared. (This usually continues with "I hear that you...," "Sounds like you...," or "Let me see if I understand you...")
* Negotiate or bargain with you about...
* Work with you to reach a decision about...
* Give you permission or consent to.../...get your permission or consent to...
* Give you some information about .../...get some information from you about...
* Give you some advice about .../...get some advice from you about...
* Give you directions, orders or work assignments... / get directions or orders from you...
* Make a request of you (for action, time, information, object, money, promise, etc.)
* Consent to (or refuse) a request you have made to me.
* Make an offer to you (for action, information, object, promise, etc.)
* Accept or decline an offer you have made to me.
* Persuade or motivate you to adopt a particular point of view.
* Persuade or motivate you to choose a particular course of action.
* Make an apology to you about... / request an apology from you about...
* Offer an interpretation of... (what ... means to me)/ ask for your interpretation of...
Being clear in the way that you communicate will not only help you become an effective communicator, but will also guide you and your clients to an advanced level in your relationship.
To be clear, your communication should be concise and should include five basic messages. These messages which need to be conveyed to establish mutual understanding are: 1) What do you sense (facts only)? 2) What do you feel emotionally? 3) What interpretations or anticipations support those emotions? 4) What action or commitment do you want? 5) What positive results will result upon completion of that action or commitment?
For example: “Sue, when I hear you typing during our conversations on the phone, I sense that you are not listening. Because I imagine that you are busy and don’t have time to talk when I call, what I want to do is to schedule a time, at your convenience when we can speak about the Vancouver project. By allocating a certain time when we can chat uninterrupted, we should be able to finalize and complete this project.â€
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Next Time You’re Talking on Your Cell Phone in Public, Think About This!
By Susan Dunn | Date Submitted: 09/14/03
Keywords: cell phone, communication, women's issues, humor, business, corporation, SEC, Securities Exchange
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Summary: These humorous anecdotes will show you that the walls have ears! Use your Emotional Intelligence when using your cell phone.
At the Roundtable on regional Administrators for the Securities Exchange Commission (SEC), a couple stories were reported that should be of interest to you if you think people aren’t listening to what you’re saying.
One administrator reported that a couple of SEC people from the Denver office were up in a little town in Wyoming and having breakfast at a restaurant. There were a couple of guys in the next booth and one of them described a very complex scheme to defraud. The other guy listened and then said, “Well what about the SEC?†And the first guy said, “Hell, they can’t be everywhere.â€
In another incident, one of the administrators reported he and his wife were hiking in Yosemite, and stayed at a little motel at the end of the trip. They shared a table at dinner with a couple of women from Florida. One of them was the daughter of a Mafia person who told them all about a public company and what all they did. He came back and reported it, and “we nailed them.â€
Use your cell phone with Emotional Intelligence please. There are things we don't want to hear, and things you don't want us to hear, wouldn't you agree?
Source: SEC Historical Society, The Roundtable on Regional Administrators, May 2003
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